Just few minute back discussion with a friend about a city (let us say city X). Somehow a statement comes that city X is having higher crime rate compare then other cities. Source is … … .defiantly not NCRB.

I am still confused except NCRB, what other source we have about crime rates. My mistake I forget the biggest source we use in India is not NCRB but our mind. Our biggest source is what we believe, does not matter if sported by statistics or not.

Because here the source was ‘what we believe‘ so the discussion turned toward kidnapping of girls (why ? Because of an incident recorded in my earlier blog).

Question is what happen if a girl goes out after dark/evening ?

My mother believe girls wont come back home if goes out after dark. Her source is .. .. . . .frankly I don’t know, even she has not seen anyone or heard any incident.

In my life I never meet a single person who really can say he has seen or in his relative or near friends has seen kidnapping or heard of it, but I have meet thousands of people believe it a serious issue specially for girls.

Still trying to understand what a serious crime which is never seen or heard in life or in circle even not in my society even I never get a reference. Yes I have seen it in papers. But have seen a lot in paper, even more then others.

Truth is in India total number of kidnapping during 2014 is nearly 77000, looks like a small number when looking at the population of more then 150 crore.

Even the number which I have concern about is how many kidnapping because of ‘GIRL WENT OUT AFTER EVENING’. To get the number we need to subtract male kidnapping out of 77000, then we need to subtract kidnapping where the age is less then 10 year and may be age more the 50 year (55 year), then we need to subtract those candidate not really kidnapped but showed as kidnapping because of some reason (earning / boy friend etc).

Although there is no way to get real number but I believe the number of kidnapping because ‘GIRL WENT OUT AFTER DARK/EVENING’ will be just a fraction of 77000, for safe side let say 5000-10000.

My personal view is this number 5 to 10 thousand is not great when we look at population. But my arguments are countered by a simple misleading statement that number is less because girls don’t go out after dark. When we speak about small cities and towns I have not seen to many male also out on roads after dark and when we think about big cities today in 2016, ratio of male & female on road after dark is almost 1.

All this remind me of one previous incident (again this i recorded in previous blog) of discussion about rape with a lady. Simple argument out of 3, 1 male is rapist. When i asked who is rapist at your home your father, your brother or your husband. Her father and brother were saint and her husband was also not rapist, still didn’t get answer where all the rapist hiding because every lady claim her father and brother are saint.

But we don’t have any argument for trained mind, educating mind is possible but not easy.


Gursharn Singh




Army / CRPF told him never bow down under any pressure. Army / CRPF told him never breakdown under difficult situations. Army / CRPF told him you are soldier and fight is your religion. Army / CRPF told him to identify enemy and destroy.

He identify his real enemy and stand against enemy. He is a real SOLDIER fighting with ANTI-MALE system.

A Real inspiration for All of US.

We stand with such fighters.


A CRPF jawan accused of rape turned down his victim’s marriage offer for withdrawal of case and opted to go to jail, Jharkhand’s Ghatsila police said.

Jadunath Murmu, 23, who was posted with Chhattisgarh’s 228th CRPF battalion, allegedly raped a girl from his village in Dumaria block. In her FIR at the Dumaria police station on October 4 last year, the girl alleged that Murmu sexually exploited her on the pretext of marriage.

“The girl’s family had got a band party for the marriage but Murmu turned down the proposal. He has been sent to the Ghatsila jail,” said Dumuria police station in-charge Bikrant Kumar. “The girl stressed on at least a court marriage but he denied.”

Kumar said Murmu was arrested from the Sukna CRPF camp in Chhattisgarh on Saturday.

“The case came to my notice after the girl threatened self immolation,” said Mosaboni deputy superintendent of police Ajit Kumar Bimal. “The arrest should have been immediate. Departmental inquiry will be done against the Mosabani police station. There was a court order too.”

Parents and relatives of both parties went to the police station to convince Murmu, but in vain. Kumar said the case could have ended if Murmu agreed.